Q:Do you think it's needy and annoying if girls text first ? Do you prefer to text them first?
I don’t prefer to text first or second. I prefer to text someone when I want to text them. I don’t believe in playing games like that. If a girl wants to text me, then text me. It should be that simple.
I don’t think it’s needy or annoying if a girl text first. I much rather a girl be expressive and open with what they have to say and when they want to say it. As a guy, sometimes you question if the person you are with really cares about you, if you have to always text them first. Think about it, would you much rather know someone cares a lot or not enough?
On the train I overheard two girls (seemingly high school age) come to the agreement that if a guy texts “goodnight” and “good morning” then he’s clingy. Personally, I always text my girl goodnight and good morning, to me it’s polite and it shows I care. If that’s what people consider needy or clingy then I think they just aren’t used to people being polite.